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15 Things You Have Full Control Over!

YOU CAN’T CONTROL EVERYTHING. Sometimes you just have relax and let God be who He is in the situations that are over your head. While there are some things that are honestly out of your control, there are some things that are still indeed in YOUR control :

  1. You can’t control what people say to you but you can control how you respond.
  2. You can’t always control what people do to you but you definitely have control over how you react.
  3. You have full control over your priorities.
  4. You have control over your own happiness. As a matter of fact, that’s an inside job for YOU to do. Nobody else.
  5. You have control over what you choose to believe.
  6. You’re in control of your thoughts.
  7. How seriously you take being successful in life? YOU are in full control of that!
  8. You are in control of the amount of effort you put into anything you do.
  9. You’re in control of where you invest your energy.
  10. You’re in control of who gets and deserves access to you.
  11. You’re in control of what you choose to let get you out of character.
  12. You’re in control of what you eat.
  13. You’re in control of the people you choose to surround yourself with.
  14. You’re in control of how big you choose to dream.
  15. You’re in control of your thoughts. Remember, positivity is a choice!

Sometimes, it’s frustrating not being able to be in control of everything but at the same time .. it’s totally OKAY! Just focus on the things you actually can control. Thanks for coming through and showing my blog some love today!

46 thoughts on “15 Things You Have Full Control Over!

        1. Thank you ❀️ I’m having to keep this list deep down in my spirit today too! Just to make it through the work day at my day job lol

  1. There was a time when I wasn’t in control of a lot of these things – intrusive thoughts, eating disorders, captivity, etc. So being able to read a list like this and realize that some of those things are now behind me and I am in control again is a really wonderful feeling.

    1. Awww Yay !!! ❀️ thank you so much !! I’ll be happy to connect with you !! 😘 i will definitely be stopping by this evening after I leave my day job!! Thanks for visiting my blog!!

  2. This is so true! It’s so important not to stress over things and let them ruin our lives when we have no control over them! We should focus on what we DO have control of. Thanks, Jessica! πŸ™‚

    1. Exactly Maddie !! ❀️ E X A C T L Y!! Thanks for reading and commenting!! I’ll be stopping by to show your site some love this evening!!

  3. Jess, this was absolutely fantastic and incredibly true!! In the past I was a little bit of a control freak, only because I wanted things to work perfect for everyone. I was also the fixer with my mother, anytime she had a drunk episode I went behind to make it all better. As I have grown, I know everyone has to be responsible for themselves and nothing can change that! You my dear sweet friend are so brilliant and full of great advice!!!

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