We live in generation where “living your best life” is defined by how much you can impress other people with what you own and everything you have going on in life but that is so totally incorrect and honestly that’s really just more of you living your life for the approval and validation of others.
…. but let’s see it from another perspective …
What if I told you that living your best life has nothing to do with how many trips you take, how many cars you have, how well you smile for the camera, or the likes you gain on social media?
Living your best life is actually about :
- having stability.
- being genuinely happy with who are.
- walking in freedom.
- actually striving towards your goals and reaching them.
- chasing what makes you happy!
- having self peace.
- and creating a life that you don’t feel like you need to vacation from.
Don’t let social media fool you. People aren’t always what they “post” to be! There are people with only 3-9 likes who have plenty of friends and then there are people with 100+ likes who are actually very lonely in real life. There are couples who look happy together, but in reality they’re miserable and then you have people who rarely post pictures of themselves or significant other on social media but are in loving and beautiful relationships.
Social Media has created jealous behavior over illusions. Sadly, some are envious over lifestyles and relationships that don’t even exist.
Focus on living YOUR own best life! Focus on yourself. Fall in love with who you are. Get excited about where you’re headed and what’s next! You have so many goals, so many dreams, so much ambition, and your constantly finding new passions. Focus on all of that! Learn to be spontaneous, take risks and step outside of your comfort zone. Literally, chase what makes YOU happy! Now that’s living your best life .. in my opinion. You don’t need validation from other people to determine whether it’s your best life or not!
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