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The HARDEST Level of Self-Care..

Self Accountability is probably one of the hardest levels of Self Care to approach. Why? Because accountability always feels like an attack when you’re not ready to acknowledge how your behavior has harmed others! WE as people, a lot of times don’t like to be “wrong”. It can be tough and it can even take a while to accept the fact that WE are the problem! Sometimes it’s not always “them” but it’s YOU too!

Self Accountability is a critical part of Self Care. It’s YOU addressing your own problematic thoughts, behaviors and removing toxic people/situations from your life. It’s about you holding YOURSELF accountable for what YOU do and say. Real personal growth starts when you begin to address the parts of your character that are flawed and actively work toward strengthening them, because you understand that life will never be truly satisfying until you become the absolute best version of yourself.

You can’t become the best version of you if you only choose to work on certain parts of you. Accountability is necessary… even if you’re in a healing process after having your heart broken. Before you can truly move forward, you have to own the part YOU played in the situation. In all honesty, some things happen beyond our control and then there are situations that we just downright bring upon ourselves.

YES, love yourself but also analyze and be critical of how you think, act, behave and respond. Self Care without Self Awareness is useless. Be accountable babes!!

8 thoughts on “The HARDEST Level of Self-Care..

  1. Truth!! It’s something everyone has to do for themselves. As soon as you try to tell somebody they aren’t behaving properly, defense mechanisms kick in. The only problem is people not having that self accountability as you say or awareness for the right purpose. And someone’s purpose is hard to determine especially if that person isn’t looking for a moral way to be.

    1. EXACTLY!!
      When you don’t hold yourself accountable for your own actions, it’s also easy to get caught up in playing victim and blaming others as well !!

  2. This is so true!!! But, so hard because I can’t love myself. I want to do better and when I don’t get what I want, I beat myself up. I can’t take “You are a woman, so you don’t get the pay you deserve” or “You are a foreigner, so you can only do these works”. If I can do it, I will try! I can be insane and people tell me to be realistic, but I am insane and want my dreams to come true. And, when I fail a certain goal, I beat myself up or get depressed. Self-love is so hard.

    1. You gotta learn how to love yourself flaws and all. You can’t keep beating yourself up babe! If you fail at something, it’s okay! You just pray about it and try again if you feel like that’s what God is directing you to do. To beat yourself up is an open door to depression easily and you don’t need that.
      Your Mind is a BATTLEGROUND!! You are what YOU think. You can’t change anything if you can’t change YOUR THINKING. So teach your mind to see the GOOD in EVERYTHING. Your life’s happiness depends on the QUALITY of YOUR THOUGHTS!πŸ’•
      Also, I just want to remind you that you don’t have to live within the comfort zones of other people!! If God gave you a dream/vision then chase it! He gave it to you for a reason. It’s not for everybody else to understand. They don’t have to understand it, they don’t even have to like it but they dang sure better respect it!!
      Thanks for reading my post and visiting my blog love! Praying for you and sending lots of love from the other side of the world !! 😘

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